Life, Death and Tragedy
The one sure thing we all face is death. During this last week, it became all the more apparent, as the possibility of death once again made an appearance in the lives of people we know. Firstly, it is an emotionally draining and sad experience for everyone involved, and we pray for those affected, their families and those who care for them.
There is a vivid contrast though. Two of the people affected are from our church, and there has been a massive upwelling of prayer, praise, community and support for and from these families, amidst the sorrow and concern. Two of the other people are from an atheist family. The reaction there, in the face of two people with terminal cancer, has been one of despair, hopelessness, feeling lost and resigned to the inevitable termination of all that is, even though there is support for the family.
Everyone grieves for lost family members, believer and non-believer alike. But for the believer, they grieve differently, because they are sad for their own loss, they also have hope for the dead, as they have hope for themselves. The non-believer is quick to define death and the way in which people die, as evil, and therefore proof that God does not exist, for a loving God would not allow such a thing.
For me, this has always been a peculiar argument. This much is clear, Christians expect suffering, the result of the evil and broken world we live in, and Christians view death as a blessed relief from that, and the gateway to eternal life in the presence of God. Does it make it any less sad when a loved one passes? Of course not, but it is most assuredly not an evil event either.
In fact, Paul writes the following in Phillipians, where he is imprisoned for preaching the Gospel:
Php 1:18 What then? Only that in every way, whether in pretense or in truth, Christ is proclaimed, and in that I rejoice. Yes, and I will rejoice,
Php 1:19 for I know that through your prayers and the help of the Spirit of Jesus Christ this will turn out for my deliverance,
Php 1:20 as it is my eager expectation and hope that I will not be at all ashamed, but that with full courage now as always Christ will be honored in my body, whether by life or by death.
Php 1:21 For to me to live is Christ, and to die is gain.
Php 1:22 If I am to live in the flesh, that means fruitful labor for me. Yet which I shall choose I cannot tell.
Php 1:23 I am hard pressed between the two. My desire is to depart and be with Christ, for that is far better.
Php 1:24 But to remain in the flesh is more necessary on your account.
It is notable that he considers death not as something lost for himself, but as something that he desires, because that will put him in the presense of Christ. Yet he also recognizes that he is needed in the physical realm, for the sake of others. The bottom line though, is that live or die, he brings honor to Christ. As long as Christ is proclaimed, then Paul is happy to live or die.
We all need to be reminded from time to time that it is Christ that must be honored, not ourselves. If that means that we die, then so be it. If that means that the way in which God decreed we die is not a simple, clean and sudden process, then we realize all the more how precious and valuable the life after this one is, where we will never die nor suffer again. That is our hope, and that of our fellow Christians.
We grieve for our own loss, yet we are glad for our deceased fellow Christians. For the non-believer though, there is nothing but regret and emptiness, and a reinforced belief in the evil of death. All of the evidence and arguments don't matter in the face of death.



